Complicated

Kenapa ye manusia suka buat sesuatu benda tuh jadi complicated? Actually, semua benda adalah simple. Cara kita handle yang jadikannya complicated. Aku tengok satu movie nih, pasal sorang anak yang nak tau love story ayah and maknya and kenapa ayah and maknya bercerai. Dia mintak ayah dia ceritakan.

Script dia lebih kurang macam nih lah ye:

Daughter: Dad, why did you love Mom in the first place?


Dad: Because she's smart, pretty and fun.


Daughter: Then why do you and her have to get divorced? Because now she's ugly, boring and dumb?


Dad: It's not like that. It's complicated. You wouldn't understand.


Daughter: You always make things complicated, Dad. You loved Mom, why don't you now? Isn't that is how things supposed to be?


Dad: speechless....

See? Bila mula berkapel, bukan main lah haiii. Kata-kata manis, kata cinta, sampai terangkat-angkat partner masing-masing kan. Semua lah dipandang dekat kapel tuh indah seindah-indahnya. Semua kelemahan boleh diterima. Semua masalah boleh setel sama-sama. Semua benda boleh share together. Laughter and sadness semua share together.

But when time goes by, semua tuh makin pudar. Bila gaduh, semua benda buruk diungkit. Semua masalah kecik jadi besar. Semua benda tak boleh nak tolerate. Masa nih kelemahan partner dah jadi point nak buat topik gaduh.

Why? Kenapa kita tak boleh nak cherish the moment? Kenapa susah bagi kita nak hargai seseorang tuh? Kadang-kadang kita nih manusia lupa. Kita terlalu mencari kesempurnaan, tetapi kita lupa yang kita sendiri mempunyai kelemahan. Semua orang nakkan yang terbaik. Semua nakkan soulmate yang sempurna, tapi jangan lupa, kalau semua orang mencari kesempurnaan, satu dunia nih hidup single haa.

"We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." - Sam Keen


Jangan susahkan diri korang. Jangan complicated kan apa yang simple. Be cool :)


p/s: Try to cherish every moment you have now with your love ones. Don't try to see things too far, yet not promising. Future isn't something that you can promise your love ones, but for sure you can promise him/her that you'll try to stay as long as you can. :)